Vivian Wilson’s relationship with Musk collapsed after she transitioned, marking a clear divide between them that has only grown over the years.
Before their estrangement, Wilson had attended a private school in Bel-Air. She was later moved to Ad Astra, the alternative school Musk created for SpaceX employees’ children, because he disagreed with the teaching methods at her previous school.
In her interview with The Cut, Wilson recalled: “I was not popular, I didn’t talk to anyone.”
Wilson came out as transgender when she was 16 years old. By the time she turned 18 in 2022, her relationship with Musk had unraveled even further, reaching a point of no return.

In her request to the judge, she wrote: “I no longer live or wish to be related to my biological father in any way, shape or form.”
Meanwhile, Musk—while aligning himself with Donald Trump and other MAGA Republicans—claimed his daughter had been “killed by the woke mind virus.” Wilson quickly clapped back on social media, reminding the world she was very much alive.
In her own words, she explained: “College is expensive, I don’t have that inheritance. People assume I have a lot of money. I don’t have hundreds and thousands of dollars at my disposal.”
She is Musk’s eldest child out of 14, but unlike her father, she has no interest in becoming “super rich.” Instead, she shares an apartment with three roommates because the arrangement is far more affordable.

Speaking with The Cut, she reflected: “I don’t have any desire to be super rich. I can afford food. I have friends, a shelter and expandable income, which is nice and much more fortunate than most people my age in Los Angeles.”
Even so, she says money continues to be a concern, and she does what she can to budget and save wherever possible.
Musk himself is currently estimated to have a net worth of around $413 billion, making her decision to live modestly stand out even more.
Looking ahead, Wilson is planning to enroll at a community college in the coming months. She hopes to continue her language studies, after previously leaving her Japanese program in Japan unfinished.